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Issue #8: How Writing Can Make You a Better Man

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What’s on Today’s Agenda:

🍔 Damn, That Looks Good

👕 Sheepskin Leather

🎧 New Song

🔨 The Power of Journaling

🤣  Dad Joke

👀 Must Watch Movie

📆 February Event

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Damn, That Looks Good

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Your Wardrobe: Time To Get The Sheepskin Leather

Shearling is a sheepskin leather that is sheared and tanned while preserving the natural fleece on one side. When reversed, the soft, shorn fleece forms a warm and insulating lining, while the exterior features a velvety suede texture. Highly durable, shearling softens over time, developing a rich character with wear. Best suited for colder temperatures, it offers exceptional warmth and comfort. The sheepskin shearling is treated and tanned in Italy, following all European standards for quality and sustainability.

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The Power of Journaling: A Man’s Guide to Self-Improvement and Reflection

Introduction

Journaling is one of the most effective and underrated habits for personal growth. Throughout history, great men such as Theodore Roosevelt, Marcus Aurelius, Benjamin Franklin, and Leonardo da Vinci have kept journals to record their thoughts, ideas, and experiences. Yet, in the modern world, journaling has become a lost art, often dismissed as something trivial or unnecessary.

The truth is that journaling is one of the most potent tools a man can use for self-improvement. It serves as a means of self-reflection, emotional processing, goal-setting, and historical documentation. This article will explore why every man should keep a journal, how to start, what to write about, and how journaling can shape one's life.

Why Every Man Should Keep a Journal

1. A Tool for Self-Reflection

In our fast-paced world, we rarely take the time to sit down and assess our thoughts and emotions. A journal provides a space to reflect on daily experiences, successes, failures, and lessons learned. Writing allows men to process thoughts in a structured way, making it easier to identify patterns, behaviors, and areas that need improvement.

2. A Place for Emotional Processing

Men are often encouraged to suppress emotions, which can lead to stress, anxiety, and unhealthy coping mechanisms. Journaling provides an outlet for emotions, helping to express feelings privately and constructively. Studies have shown that writing about emotions can reduce stress and improve well-being.

3. Goal-Setting and Accountability

A journal is an excellent place to set personal, professional, and fitness goals. Writing down goals increases the likelihood of achieving them. Moreover, reviewing journal entries allows men to track progress and hold themselves accountable.

4. A Record of Personal Growth

With time, a journal becomes a personal archive—a detailed record of where a man has been, what he has thought, and how he has evolved. This historical documentation can serve as motivation, a way to avoid repeating past mistakes, and even a resource for passing wisdom to future generations.

5. A Creativity Booster

Journaling isn’t just about recording daily events. It can also be a space for brainstorming new ideas, solving problems, or capturing moments of inspiration. Many of history’s greatest minds refined their ideas and projects using journals.

How to Start a Journal

Starting a journal is easy, but making it a habit requires commitment. Here are some key steps to get started:

1. Choose Your Medium

  • Traditional Notebook – Writing with pen and paper can be a tactile and therapeutic experience. A quality leather-bound journal or a simple notebook can make the process enjoyable.

  • Digital Journals – Some prefer using apps like Evernote, Day One, or Google Docs to keep their journal organized and searchable.

  • Audio Journals – Recording voice memos can be a great alternative for those who dislike writing.

2. Establish a Routine

Journaling is most effective when done consistently. Set a specific time each day or week to write. Morning journaling can help set intentions for the day, while evening journaling allows for reflection and unwinding.

3. Overcome the Fear of the Blank Page

Many beginners struggle with what to write about. The key is to start small—write a few sentences about the day's events, thoughts, or feelings. Over time, the habit will become easier.

4. Write for Yourself

A journal is a private space free from judgment. Don’t worry about grammar, structure, or making it sound perfect. The goal is self-expression, not literary excellence.

What to Write About in Your Journal

There are no strict rules about what to include in a journal, but here are some practical journaling approaches:

1. Daily Reflections

Writing about daily experiences—what happened, what was learned, and how one felt—helps process emotions and events.

2. Gratitude Journaling

Listing things to be grateful for daily can improve mood, mental health, and overall perspective on life.

3. Goal Tracking

Record goals, break them into actionable steps, and track progress over time.

4. Problem-Solving

Writing about challenges and brainstorming solutions can lead to clearer thinking and better decision-making.

5. Letters to Your Future Self

Writing letters to be read in the future provides perspective and serves as motivation.

6. Dream Journaling

Recording dreams can provide insight into subconscious thoughts and emotions.

7. Freewriting

Writing whatever comes to mind, without structure or agenda, can be a great way to unlock creativity and relieve stress.

The Benefits of Journaling Over Time

1. Improved Mental Clarity

Journaling forces structured thinking, which leads to clearer thoughts and better decision-making.

2. Emotional Stability

Expressing thoughts and feelings in a journal reduces stress and provides emotional relief.

3. Stronger Self-Discipline

Consistently writing in a journal reinforces discipline and commitment—qualities that transfer to other areas of life.

4. Enhanced Memory and Learning

Writing things down helps the brain retain information, reinforcing lessons learned through experience.

5. A Deeper Sense of Purpose

Journaling can help clarify values, beliefs, and long-term aspirations, leading to a stronger sense of direction in life.

How to Maintain the Habit of Journaling

1. Keep It Simple

The most significant mistake men make is overcomplicating the process. Journaling doesn’t require pages of writing—just a few sentences each day is enough to maintain consistency.

2. Use Prompts

If unsure what to write, use prompts such as:

  • What are three things I’m grateful for today?

  • What challenge am I facing, and how can I approach it?

  • What lesson did I learn this week?

  • Where do I want to be in five years, and what steps can I take today?

3. Don’t Judge Yourself

Write freely, without fear of imperfection. A journal is a private space where thoughts and ideas can flow without constraints.

4. Make It Enjoyable

Use a quality notebook, your favorite pen, or an aesthetically pleasing digital app to make the process enjoyable.

5. Reflect on Past Entries

Every few months, revisit previous journal entries to see personal growth and identify recurring themes or patterns.

Conclusion

Journaling is a simple yet transformative habit that can help men become more introspective, emotionally balanced, and goal-oriented. Whether used for self-reflection, creativity, goal-setting, or emotional processing, keeping a journal is one of the most effective tools for personal growth.

By starting today and maintaining a consistent habit, men can better understand themselves, document their journey, and leave a meaningful record of their thoughts and experiences. Journaling may seem small, but over time, its impact is profound.

So grab a notebook, open a blank document, or hit record—and start journaling today. The future version of yourself will thank you.

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👀 Must Watch Movie

"Nightbitch" is a 2024 American black comedy horror film directed by Marielle Heller, adapted from Rachel Yoder's 2021 novel. The film stars Amy Adams as a former artist who becomes a stay-at-home mother and begins to believe she's transforming into a dog. Scott McNairy co-stars as her husband.

The narrative delves into identity, motherhood, and women's pressures to balance personal aspirations with familial responsibilities. As the protagonist experiences surreal physical changes—such as patches of fur and heightened senses—she grapples with the possibility of a literal metamorphosis, serving as a metaphor for her internal struggles.

"Nightbitch" premiered at the Toronto International Film Festival on September 7, 2024, and was released theatrically in the United States by Searchlight Pictures on December 6, 2024. It became available for streaming on Hulu on December 27, 2024.

Critical reception has been mixed. The film holds a 56% rating on Metacritic, indicating "mixed or average reviews."

Amy Adams' performance has been widely praised for its depth and authenticity, capturing the complexities of modern motherhood. However, some critics have noted that while the film ambitiously blends horror and comedy elements, it occasionally falls short of delivering on its central metaphor.

Overall, "Nightbitch" offers a unique and thought-provoking exploration of the challenges and transformations inherent in motherhood, anchored by a compelling performance from Amy Adams.

📆 February Event: Saturday Night Rumble

Date and time

Saturday, February 8 · 7:30 - 11 pm EST

Location

Lexus Velodrome

601 Mack Ave. Detroit, MI 48201

Saturday Night Rumble (SNR) races are a dynamic development series designed to provide racing experiences for riders of all skill levels, from beginners to elite competitors. These events allow aspiring racers to gain experience while competing against seasoned local professionals who bring high competition to the track. The SNR series features some of the most exhilarating race formats, including the Madison, Chase, Elimination, Sprints, and Keirin. Most participants come from Michigan, Ohio, Illinois, and Ontario.

A key distinction between SNR races and the Pro Winter Six 2-Day races lies in the level of competition. While SNR primarily highlights regional talent, the Pro Winter Six brings top riders across the U.S. and worldwide to challenge local professionals. These events are known as Rumbles due to the unmistakable sound of riders speeding across the wooden track—the RUMBLE OF THE TRACK!

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