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I Tried to Map My Wife's Mental Load. I Couldn't Finish It.

Three jobs. One brain. And a list that never ends.

Jeff "fuzzy" Wenzel

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What Would a Good Man Look Like If Women Had Built This Thing?

May 19, 2026

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5 min read

What Would a Good Man Look Like If Women Had Built This Thing?

A thought experiment that made me uncomfortable. And I think it's supposed to.

Jeff "fuzzy" Wenzel

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Do Most People Need Religion?Yeah, said the atheist.

May 4, 2026

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4 min read

Do Most People Need Religion?Yeah, said the atheist.

How Much Do You Actually Want to Know? The case for letting people keep their stories

Jeff "fuzzy" Wenzel

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15 Years of Silence. The Sugar People Are Back.

Mar 25, 2026

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15 Years of Silence. The Sugar People Are Back.

A PERSONAL NOTE FROM JEFF WENZEL

Jeff "fuzzy" Wenzel

Issues

Issue #17: You've Never Created a Life. And It Might Be Killing People.

Mar 19, 2026

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10 min read

Issue #17: You've Never Created a Life. And It Might Be Killing People.

The First Rule of H.M.C - Don’t Talk About the H.M.C

Jeff "fuzzy" Wenzel

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She Was Running the Whole Thing. For Free.

Mar 6, 2026

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She Was Running the Whole Thing. For Free.

I spent 15 years inside churches. The women were doing everything. Nobody was paying them.

Jeff "fuzzy" Wenzel

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Feb 23, 2026

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10 min read

Because I Said So

What that four-word phrase is teaching your kids, and what it costs some of them everything.

Jeff "fuzzy" Wenzel

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We're All Just Watching Gladiators While Rome Burns

Jan 13, 2026

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10 min read

We're All Just Watching Gladiators While Rome Burns

On sports, male intimacy, and the comfortable distractions keeping us from becoming fully human

Jeff "fuzzy" Wenzel

Issues

Issue #16: 💍 Marriage Was Sold as a Partnership. Many Women Are Still Waiting for One.

Jan 8, 2026

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13 min read

Issue #16: 💍 Marriage Was Sold as a Partnership. Many Women Are Still Waiting for One.

The First Rule of H.M.C - Don’t Talk About the H.M.C

Jeff "fuzzy" Wenzel

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The Propaganda Hiding in Your Christmas Tree

Dec 23, 2025

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5 min read

The Propaganda Hiding in Your Christmas Tree

Why everything you think is a Christian tradition probably isn't, and what that means for how we choose to celebrate

Jeff "fuzzy" Wenzel

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Part 4: Leaving Some Leaves Behind: The Work Men Need to Do

Dec 8, 2025

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6 min read

Part 4: Leaving Some Leaves Behind: The Work Men Need to Do

One Man's Journey from Control to Connection

Jeff "fuzzy" Wenzel

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Part 3: Propaganda Becomes Blueprint: How We Learned to Control Instead of Connect

Dec 1, 2025

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Part 3: Propaganda Becomes Blueprint: How We Learned to Control Instead of Connect

One Man's Journey from Control to Connection

Jeff "fuzzy" Wenzel

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I Tried to Map My Wife's Mental Load. I Couldn't Finish It.

What Would a Good Man Look Like If Women Had Built This Thing?

Do Most People Need Religion?Yeah, said the atheist.

15 Years of Silence. The Sugar People Are Back.

Issue #17: You've Never Created a Life. And It Might Be Killing People.

She Was Running the Whole Thing. For Free.

Because I Said So

We're All Just Watching Gladiators While Rome Burns

Issue #16: 💍 Marriage Was Sold as a Partnership. Many Women Are Still Waiting for One.

The Propaganda Hiding in Your Christmas Tree

Part 4: Leaving Some Leaves Behind: The Work Men Need to Do

Part 3: Propaganda Becomes Blueprint: How We Learned to Control Instead of Connect

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